It's Been Too Long, And It's Gonna Get Better

For those of you who have been wondering - "What happened to the Fat Bitch?" I did NOT die! I am just focused on other things up until now.

Whew! I am stoked to be back! Back in October, things weren't going so hot for me, but I am doing a LOT better now! I am now in a new relationship with a new guy who has everything I needed (Everything I ranted about in my last few blogs), I have been OFFICIALLY diagnosed with MDD (Massive Depressive Disorder) and I am now taking meds! WHOOOO! Who'da'thunk that 2 little pills daily could improve my mood so much?

But just because I'm in a better mood doesn't mean I'm any less of a Fat Bitch! <3 

I can still rant about things. I am now delving into my Feminist Side, and right now I am ALL OVER the rape culture in the United States. HOLY SHIT WHAT A TOPIC. 

First off, let's get one things straight... A Woman's Wardrobe does NOT mean she is ASKING TO BE RAPED. Just because I like to wear short skirts and a bodice that nearly shows my bra holding the twins in, doesn't mean I want your nasty lecherous hands all over me or your eyes undressing me, it means that I want to look hot in a nightclub and that I am empowered by being attractive. MY SEXINESS IS FOR ME NOT YOU, ASSHOLE. I am not trying to impress anyone but myself. When I leave my apartment I think; "Damn, I look HOT." And I wish my boyfriend was there to help me undress afterwards, but that's another story. <3 

Secondly, since WHEN is it NOT a man's fault that he FORCIBLY engages the girl in intercourse or some variation there-of? Honey, when I want sex, I will have sex and I will enjoy it. The moment I don't and I say stop and the other person keeps going, it is IMMEDIATELY rape. Same can go for guys!! If a guy isn't interested anymore or doesn't even want to continue sex and says no, it is RAPE if the woman pushes him down and continues. And YES, women CAN overpower men too; verbally, emotionally, or physically.

Those are two huge arguments at the heart of a Feminist's cry against misogyny in our cultures. And they are good points too. And yet we have to wonder why a good portion of the population thinks the opposite; that women are wanting to put themselves in these situations and that it is THEIR fault it occurred in the first place. Honestly, turn on the TV and watch any commercial or TV show/drama. What are the women doing? What do they look like? Is there an attractive woman in there that isn't sexual in some way or stupid? The TV show Ugly Betty is painful to watch for this reason. Women have very 2-Dimensional roles in our culture. 

When have you seen a sweet-looking chubby girl as the main star of a TV drama? When have you seen a fat girl as anything but crazy, bitchy, book-smart, or sex/love-starved? Oohhh... It PISSES me off! Fuck this country!

I'm going to lid this particular topic for now. When I next have time, I will most definitely post about the word "bitch". <3 A very personal blog for me, stay tuned!!!

     ~The Lamb's Witch